We celebrated our 41st anniversary  today... actually taking much of the day off to go out and do something totally different... we finished up breakfast for Uncle Bill this morning  (having been here for his 117th visit to start off the month of June)... how wonderful it is... this one and all the other relationships we have made with so many  people over the years who just come back year after year after year....Bill broke all his old records  with 5 visits during May!.... then started off again arriving on the 1st of June...what a hoot!    :)We did only the things we absolutely had to get done and then took off for Burlington.... took a tour of Shelburne  Farm... wonderful historic tour... Ellen had visited years back as part of her teaching at Berlin Elementary... but I had never been to the Farms before... just a totally different  kind of thing for us to do...We looked at a couple shops Ellen wanted to visit and ended up having dinner together at the Olive Garden which we both enjoy. Just a really neat  enjoyable different time together... Why do we do things like that...?   ... like celebrate anniversaries...?... do different kinds of things than the normal routine..?  Why do we enjoy building our relationship with each other with quality time and conversation...?Why to we enjoy building our relationship  with Bill so much...?  Why do we enjoy all those other relationships with our guests...?  I mean those things all take a lot of time... and there are all those important pressing tasks that need to get done ... why are you spending all that time  talking to your friends Bodie and Jeff....?  Come on...get busy Philip... go generate some income instead... get busy big fella....Then we get to the question posed yesterday...  So Philip....why do you write?Do you think all these why  things might just have something in common....?..... hmmmmMay just have to muse about the connection...:)